Sex Devoid of Love



Sex might have been, from our point of view, quite innocent. It might have been merely one more mode in which a stronger self preyed upon a weaker-as it is, indeed, among the spiders where the bride concludes her nuptials by eating her groom. But in the humans the Enemy has gratuitously associated affection between the parties with sexual desire. He has also made the offspring dependent on the parents and given the parents an impulse to support it-thus producing the Family, which is like the organism, only worse; for the members are more distinct, yet also united in a more conscious and responsible way. The whole thing, in fact, turns out to be simply one more device for dragging in Love.


CS Lewis, The Screwtape Letters


Moira Greyland, the daughter of the late fantasy author Marion Zimmer Bradley, has some chilling observations of growing up in a home where both her parents sexually abused her:

… My observation of my father and mother’s actual belief is this: since everyone is naturally gay, it is the straight establishment that makes everyone hung up and therefore limited.  Sex early will make people willing to have sex with everyone, which will bring about the utopia while eliminating homophobia and helping people become “who they really are.” It will also destroy the hated nuclear family with its paternalism, sexism, ageism (yes, for pedophiles, that is a thing) and all other “isms.”  If enough children are sexualized young enough, gayness will suddenly be “normal” and accepted by everyone, and the old fashioned notions about fidelity will vanish.  As sex is integrated as a natural part of every single relationship, the barriers between people will vanish, and the utopia will appear, as “straight culture” goes the way of the dinosaur.  As my mother used to say: “Children are brainwashed into believing they don’t want sex.”

Go here to read the rest.  It is a popular contemporary superstition that sex can be divorced from morality.  The endpoint of that view is the strong preying upon the weak.  Take morality out of the picture and love usually vanishes out the window also.  Then we have sex that can only please demons or would be demons.

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  1. What happens when sex is taken from children is that a child’s civil right to have informed sexual consent at emancipation is taken from him. His freedom to exercise his free will is taken from him. To ratify this notion of sex as a favor to everyone is the denial of the sovereignty of the other person, child, adult, man or woman. It is to eradicate all personal privacy and human civil rights and make nobodies of all sovereign citizens. (subject to whom, might I ask?) The Court made sodomy of “We, the people”. The Court has no authority to make sodomy of the people who constitute it.

  2. Sic semper liberalosis.

    Dulce liberalensis inexpertis.
    In plain English, liberalism is a crime against humanity.

  3. Moira Greyland is very brave to speak out about her awful upbringing by her depraved parents for she will be attacked and suffer for it. Her last paragraph on this post sums up the destructiveness of the gay life style and gay marriage and the vicious cycle of abuse and perversion. Kill the unborn; lower the age of consent; destroy the innocence of childhood; the abnormal accepted as normal; destroy the family, the foundation of our culture and our society. God shower us with grace and help us to fight the Evil One and to uphold the values and morals of the Church. Amen.

  4. Well, these same moral thinkers say that we are no better than rats or cockroaches as a species. At least those lowly creatures comprehend that sex is for reproduction, so I’m not quite sure we’ve not lessened our God-given dignity to a lower level than those creat

    Talk about eating from the “tree of knowledge of good and evil”
    We’ve inverted and perverted just about all the good that God has gifted us.

  5. What a courageous woman.
    Yes, good can come from evil and she is proof of that.
    God, watch over and protect her.

  6. This thread has led to a number of similar essays and persons.

    Brandy Williams:
    The Waves Will Wash us Away:

    Katy Faust:
    SCOTUS moves away from the Rights of Children towards a “Right to Children”
    Bruce Jenner takes off his cross- and hands it to his children

  7. After dealing with all of that, she still has the power to identify a problem that will get her attacked.
    That is very brave, indeed.

  8. Barbara Gordon, Nothing surprises me about this administration.
    Tom D: Thank you. I read all the links. I’m not naive, but Moira’s full article was unsettling.
    Foxfire: There will be some sort of campaign to discredit her, wait and see. She needs our prayers.

  9. CAM-
    there already has been; you can start a flame war by mentioning her in many fantastic fiction circles.
    Needless to say, the ones I hang in are the ones where it’s a flame war centered around what she suffered being unacceptable. I’ve heard of ones where they call her a liar, and to heck with the evidence.

  10. Moira demonstrates courage in her ‘coming out’ about her experience with her parents. She has discovered a freedom in speaking out on a topic that most could not speak publically about. My hat goes off to her.

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